DPS display could easily be solved with a system already in game.

[Asierid]

I always find that the people most opposed to DPS Parsers/Checkers are often the ones that don't even do the content which it'd be most widely used.

Why anyone who is a DPS would be afraid to know their DPS just suggests to me that they shouldn't be playing that role.

There are tools already that exist to parse, they just require you to have a computer to use them. Hell if your that concerned about it.. give an option to "Hide Dps" you can click.

But the bad people might talk bad about me.

There is no compromise here. All you have is a bunch of people who haven't touched progression raid content complaining that they don't want parsers touching their daily experts. That's all it will ever be by the way things are going.