DPS display could easily be solved with a system already in game.

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Information is only valuable if it can be compared, knowing only your own DPS does nothing for you.
Instead of bemoaning parsing because some people might get harassed, welcome it so they can improve.

Um it would let you know how much dps you are personally doing on a fight. You could test yourself on a dummy and improve your rotations based on that number. You could improve your strategy on a given fight adn do more dps. It would absolutely be valuable to know your own dps.

Then obviously if you are in an FC/ perma group you would share those numbers with your fc mates, who arn't going to kick you out of a group because of a number.

So my solution keeps people from being harassed, and gives you all the info you need.

The argument for a DPS meter is split into 2 camps.

1. Some people want meters to know how much dps they are pulling personally, and to use that number to improve.
2. Some people want meters to know when someone is "underperforming" even though dps < mechanics.

I do not think SE is ever going to give you #2, so u might want to just support #1.