Today, I ran Turn 5. Nothing major, I'm in Final Coil. I joined on my Black Mage, like I do, and remembered most of the fight pretty well. I did...ok. Screwed up a couple runs (not all on me, by any stretch), but after two wipes, cleared without dying. A fellow Black Mage commented my rotation was "odd". This puzzled me. I thought I was on the standard BLM rotation.
Nope.
Turns out I panic under pressure, and botch my rotations. I asked the other player, and was given some tips (including the BLM thread, which is really useful), that I'll surely use, and has already helped my DPS on the practice dummy noticeably. This doesn't help the root problem, though, so I have some questions for other DPS. I've been BLMing since summer of last year, so I should have my rotations down.
Question 1. How do you avoid rotation errors in "hard" content, while managing mechanics you may or may not have down perfectly? This comes up in EX Primals as well. I've cleared them all, and farming Shiva and Ramuh are no problem, because I learned them with everyone else. Ifrit and Titan, though, are pretty much only run for pony farms now, and though I've cleared, I haven't run the fights enough to memorize them. Pony farms don't want a derpy BLM, they want quick, flawless runs.
Question 2. There are clear parties, and farm parties. What about when you've cleared, you know the fight enough, but still make errors from time to time? I want to help others clear, but I get hesitant because I've only cleared a few(under 5) times myself. Sometimes I want to farm, but people can get really upset if you die, or worse, wipe, a farm group.
Question 3. Hypothetically, if parsing were to be allowed by the Terms of Service, would you recommend parsing? Do parsers note what spells you cast when, so you can see when you dodged, forgot what you were doing, and recast Thunder when you should have been on Fire 1?
Lastly, tips in general? In single player games, I can practice hard content all day long, fail as much as I need to till I've mastered it. In FFXIV, my failures affect other players, who are losing time. Its a weird situtation to want to improve, but being reluctant to make others sit through the improvement process. Before you suggest "Practice party in PF", very few people want to sit through "I want to become flawless in older, nearly irrelevant content."