Entitled DPS, please stop being entitled

[Adire]

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Yeah, he was an oddball. He has multiple classes at 50, including bard now. He's also a 50 WAR, a 50 WHM, and a 50 NIN, as well as has all 3* crafts. So if he hasn't figured out by now that AoEing sometimes is a good idea...then yeah...

Please note, I have said throughout the thread that if most of the group wants exp, I do exp. I've said if asked nicely, I give them exp. So I'm not entitled. It's only in the event of a tie that I think tanks should have the final say so, because it's their job to pull after all. This situation was a tie, and I was not asked nicely or treated fairly. I offered compromise rather than behave as a dictator, and tanked the mobs he pulled out of goodwill rather than let him tank them. Only reading my OP can be misleading.

This thread was to share my story with others, and to remind people to treat others like human beings and leave the pulling to the tanks. As someone who has witnessed and experienced the bias against tanks that many players seem to have, that is why I'm posting as well. I do not experience these things as a healer or DPS nearly as often, and I even play DPS far more often than I play PLD.

Such a wise words from Elven, are you Urianger long relative?
Just chill and don't whine OP.

I'll whine if I gosh darn feel like it, I pay my fee like everyone else :P

[Vydos]

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If he did have multiple jobs at lvl 50. Then he definately was a jerk. But perhaps he had some bad experiences himself or a bad day.
And apologies, if I offended you. It's just how it came across from the first post. And I've only read the first 10 pages.

And you are entitled to complain. I just feel that this might be a bit overdramatic than it should be. It still, after all, remains an average day in the DF. Which most of the time goes well but can as easily go sour.

Such a wise words from Elven, are you Urianger long relative?

Haha, I'm flattered. But I'm Urianger more hotter and sexier version. *strikes a pose*

[Adire]

If he did have multiple jobs at lvl 50. Then he definately was a jerk. But perhaps he had some bad experiences himself or a bad day.
And apologies, if I offended you. It's just how it came across from the first post. And I've only read the first 10 pages.

And you are entitled to complain. I just feel that this might be a bit overdramatic than it should be. It still, after all, remains an average day in the DF. Which most of the time goes well but can as easily go sour.



Haha, I'm flattered. But I'm Urianger more hotter and sexier version. *strikes a pose*

No offense taken. Your post was reasonable and not mean, thanks for that

And it is just an average day in DF. I just reached the point where I needed to rant about it a bit.

No proof of whether the dps or the tank who was entitled. Shouldve been including the screenshot of the chat.
I mean, not fair only listening to only 1 side of the story dont you think?

Oh btw, I play tank myself and i never thought i am the leader, being a rebel and whatnot :/

Like I said, I'd love to have pictures, but I didn't take any during the situation. I understand if you don't really believe what I'm saying since I don't have any proof, but all I can say is that I'm not making anything up and that I'm not gaining anything worth lying about. Take it or leave it. If you aren't wanting to believe me (understandable) about my presentation of the situation, then it's best not to bother with the discussion going on too deeply though. SE should really implement a chat log feature of some sort really.

I don't plan on tanking anymore for anyone except friends, and don't plan on posting anymore on the forums about my experiences with people given the reactions though, so this won't be an issue anymore anyways. If I did for whatever reason change my mind, I'd get screenshots next time.

[Mugiawara]

I'll whine if I gosh darn feel like it, I pay my fee like everyone else :P

Not to be mean but you're probably going to get yourself banned and others banned over it.
Because this is one long ass heated topic that you just need to move on. Your responses are making
people aim at you badly, just dropping it you'll stop getting attacked or whatever...
The event happened nearly a week ago and your still bothered by it.
Just play the game and forget the guy. I got the heat by people before, either reported
or ignored it and moved on with my life lol. So just have a nice day. I'm surprised people aren't bored yet with
just singing the same tune over and over again in this thread.