As a tank, you tank. Nothing more, Nothing less. You don't become the "leader", you don't become the new dictator of the world. You get to hold mobs and get punched in the face. The fact that you have heavy armor and can tank means nothing, you would be dead without the healers to keep you alive or the dps to actually kill something.

So while those people in the dungeon were being asshats, the whole other part of this thread is irrelevant because it just isn't now the "party" system works; it has never worked that way since online rpgs decided to use the trinity. Teamwork dictates the strategies to win. Decisions are to be made as a team. Does the team fail to meet these expectations? Leave it then. Just ends up being a waste of time anyway. You set the pace of these decisions, nothing more.

This whole thread is ridiculous.