Entitled DPS, please stop being entitled

[Adire]

Self-entitled tanks stop being self-entitled in Duty Finder. Just as you would easily let them die for pulling extra mobs that you want to skip because you feel like being a jerk just for the sake of being a jerk, they could've just let you die with those nine mobs you pulled. If you want to dictate the rules for a dungeon, make a Party Finder group. Otherwise, stop being rude along with your sad attempt at trying to find justification for your hypocrisy on here.

You didn't read anything I said or only picked out what you wanted to acknowledge. Time to repeat myself again.

I pulled 6 mobs, he pulled some more.

I helped kill the mobs he pulled.

I asked him to AoE as a compromise since me and my friend were not there to do a full clear, but were willing to and were hoping he would AoE so we wouldn't have to do a full clear AND sit through an agonizingly slow dungeon.

He said no in an aggressive, rude manner yet again, and proceeded to grief us and continue to demand that we bow to his every whim, refusing any sort of compromise, demanding that we kill all mobs with no AoE AND pull all mobs or we would be allowed to die.

I've said I'm willing to do clears if treated with respect. I've said that I do clears if outnumbered. How many more times am I going to have to say this before people stop calling me a hypocrite?

There is no hypocrisy here friend. Read a bit more, and you'd know!

It pains me that the immediately aggressive, uncompromising person in this situation is being defended and the things I did right are being conveniently left out of posts.

An entitled person would not compromise. An entitled person would not agree to put the majority above themselves. I have said many times that I do both, and would have given him what he wanted if he treated me with some semblance of respect or agreed to the small compromise.

If I'm entitled and wrong because I want to be treated with respect, then I guess I'll just be entitled and wrong. Last I checked, the desire to be treated like a human and the willingness to forgive and compromise do not make someone entitled.

[Ashkendor]

Read a bit more, and you'd know!

Remember, this is the internet. Respond first, read la- ...nah, too lazy to read it, gg noobs. :3

[StrejdaTom]

I am kinda becoming tired of these butthurt threads. It really doesn't matter if the person is tank, dps or healer, if he is a deuche, he will act like one so please stop puting everyone in the same bag already because that is even worse than the behaviour you are descripting in your post.

[XgungraveX]

Self-entitled tanks stop being self-entitled in Duty Finder. Just as you would easily let them die for pulling extra mobs that you want to skip because you feel like being a jerk just for the sake of being a jerk, they could've just let you die with those nine mobs you pulled. If you want to dictate the rules for a dungeon, make a Party Finder group. Otherwise, stop being rude along with your sad attempt at trying to find justification for your hypocrisy on here.

entitled to what? the dps was toxic from the get go i dont blame the op from what they did.

[Twilite]

Let me help you out here. You pulled 6 mobs in your preferred path. He pulled the mobs you intended to skip. He's wrong for doing this because it could potentially cause a wipe. Come to Lamia, I'll be your DPS any time lol. Or maybe someday we'll meet in df heh.

As a dps myself though, I don't like skipping mobs either, or moreso, skipping chests; that's an opportunity on missed gear. But it's really nothing to have a fit over.

[Adire]

Let me help you out here. You pulled 6 mobs in your preferred path. He pulled the mobs you intended to skip. He's wrong for doing this because it could potentially cause a wipe. Come to Lamia, I'll be your DPS any time lol. Or maybe someday we'll meet in df heh.

Well, as I said, I would have gladly gone back to get the mobs for him if he had changed his attitude or agreed to the compromise, and would have gathered them up myself in the beginning if he had asked me to instead of demanding it. But yes, he took doing the tank's job upon himself and went and rounded them up on his own.

Thanks for not being an obnoxious dps though! I'd gladly do a clear for you any day :P. If you ever find yourself on Balmung, add me if you want! If I ever go to Lamia, I'll look for you too. Always happy to make more friends and meet cool people.

Remember, this is the internet. Respond first, read la- ...nah, too lazy to read it, gg noobs. :3

Seems so I'm too optimistic to hope for otherwise I guess.

I am kinda becoming tired of these butthurt threads. It really doesn't matter if the person is tank, dps or healer, if he is a deuche, he will act like one so please stop puting everyone in the same bag already because that is even worse than the behaviour you are descripting in your post.

I realize the title of my thread gives a bad impression. Anyone who reads the entire OP and understands the context should understand that I do not condone the behavior from any role though. Part of my post applies to DPS because it is not their role to pull or use their role rights to dictate pulls (though they have say with their personal rights, hence why I've said I let the majority rule even if I'm a tank, but why at the same time it's widely considered wrong for DPS to pull themselves), and the part of it after the disclaimer applies to even tanks.

The title was directed at DPS for 3 reasons:
1. The situation that occurred involved a DPS, which is the basis for most of my post.

2. In this situation, there was a tie between interests about the issue of mob pulling. In this situation, the DPS ran off to pull mobs. That is not accepted behavior by the community and is not intended behavior by SE, and as such is entitled behavior if it is done in a similar situation. A tank pulling is not, because that is in the realm of their role. In a tie, they are not doing anything wrong by pulling; that's their job after all. A dps pulling what they want in a tie is wrong though. My OP is in part reminding other DPS of that fact. Please refer to the next point though:

3. I was still a bit frustrated when I made the thread. I'd change the title to be more general and apply to healers (and tanks for certain parts of my post) as well, but as far as I'm aware, there is no title editing function.

[HakuroDK]

I've seen this kind of rude behavior from a ton of people, not just DPS.

In my experience, healers are probably some of the most rude individuals in the game. But that's my experience.

I think, by targeting DPS specifically, you set off a flame war.

[Kikoten]

People in the English General Forums don't like to read. I guess that's why my post about "If You Could Create A Side Quest" got moved to the Quest forums by the mods, where the minority go to actually read, yet all these "D'aw a picture!" threads get to stay here.

[kehn]

People in the English General Forums don't like to read. I guess that's why my post about "If You Could Create A Side Quest" got moved to the Quest forums by the mods, where the minority go to actually read, yet all these "D'aw a picture!" threads get to stay here.

[Fynlar]

With the semi-exception of letting seeds hatch in AV. If you do it right it doesn't really take any more time and it's 10x the exp. If you're killing seeds off for your 'speed run' you're just kind of a dick. But that's the only exception.

I honestly had no idea for a long time that the seedlings gave EXP whereas the fruits did not, in part because I mostly didn't run the dungeon until I was already level 50. So don't be too quick to get all uppity on someone for that reason; a lot of people might not even know.