I somewhat have to agree with the OP. People are seriously overreacting to something that amounts to a mild irritation at best. They're only sending you /tells and friend requests, but the way people go on about it a stranger visiting these forums for the first time would think the RMT is standing outside your door threatening to rape your family if you don't let them in and buy their gil. RMT is not ruining your life. They aren't preventing you from playing the game. They're just annoying. SE is doing their best considering the nature of the beast so ease off the gas a bit and take a deep breath.

If you must complain, do so in a civil manner and put them all into one big easy-to-spot (for both SE and new posters) mega thread instead of spamming the forums with a bunch of little ones that burn out in a few days and disappear into the abyss.