Quote Originally Posted by aerialrave View Post
Well, you can't force your playstyle onto others, any more then they can force their playstyles onto you. Unless someone is doing something that severely impacts your chances of successfully completing the duty, you might want to just leave them alone.
No, I can't force my style onto others. However, if there is no need for the extra healing (and in my case there was no need for the healing -- no one died or even got below 70% HP) then you're not living up to your end of the bargain. You're dead weight. I'm doing what I signed up to do plus more. You aren't. Why should the group carry you? Is that fair to the group?

As for your story: I disagree completely. What the tank did was his own fault, not the healers. The healer was overwhelmed. If you'd stopped healing on a normal pack of mobs and you wiped, that would be a different matter. This was out of her control. I don't know any really good healer who hasn't wiped because the tank pulled too many. It wasn't your healers fault.