I don't want to use parsers

[Asierid]

I hate parsers, it just gives people ammo to point fingers either for good or bad and no ones using parsers to find out who's doing a good job.

Thats because if you are doing a bad job, you should know. Most of the community is helpful and is willing to push your numbers with some advice, problem is the bad players get all defensive and do not want to improve, so we all suffer.

Sorry. But if you're terrible and I offer advice to help not only you, but the group as a whole, clear a hurdle and you shrug it off as doing fine; you can find another group to be terrible in.

Parsers are there to help you better yourself, problem is most people shun the thought of help and want to do things their way. Sure, there are people that are jerks about it, but they are everywhere. That's not even an excuse anymore. People just don't want to be called out, private or not.