You're a bard, I'd say T9 rule of thumb is: no bard, no win
So there's that, you have a kind of needed spot.

Learn to mark divebombs. It is really easy and even farm groups are looking for markers all the time, that might open new possibilities.
On the matter of Divebombs, take this graphic: Link

Divebombs must be marked everytime Nael casts "Bahamuts favor".
Always start looking from north and go clockwise.
Mark A will always be between the first two dragons you see.
Mark B will always be after the last dragon you see.
Profit.

That might help you to get into a group.. maybe.. T9 without static can be a pain. Maybe also look out for linkshells or create one with likeminded people you think do a good job.