Only 1 person has to register a time-slot, but you will need to be in a party with your partner in order to be able to register the time-slot. The Time-slots will be mentioned in your local time.

Once you’ve registered a time-slot, you and your partner will get a stack of 40 Blank invitations each. When you give/send one of those Blank Invitations to someone you want to invite for the ceremony, the date and time of the ceremony will be shown in in their Local time, once they view the tooltip. So, when your partner looks at the Blank Invitation, it will show the Ceremony time in his/her Local time.

Before registering a time-slot for the Ceremony, you can enter the chapel and talk to the Ceremony NPC there to select a Ceremony Style (depending on the type of Ceremony you’ve selected/bought from the Mog Station, not all options might be available for you).




Only 1 person HAS to do it, but you can both apply your own preferences. You enter the Chapel for the actual ceremony, you will have to select if you want to use your preferences, or the ones from your partner.

Be sure to have the Bracelet equipped when you talk to the Ceremony NPC’s. You don’t have to be in your wedding attire before entering the Chapel. You have plenty of time to change inside, since you will be placed in a personal waiting room. Once you’re ready, ring the bell to start the ceremony (as well as to progress to the next part of the ceremony).