Howdy!
My wife (Momoiro Bara) and I have casually played the game over the past year. We were looking for a Linkshell that was both social and had members interested in getting to 50 with their jobs before 3.0.
We are both friendly folks. She's quiet, but is on most of the day, usually found crafting and gathering. I'm on in the evening and pretty much whenever I'm not working. We're into anime, comics, and have a decent amount of nerdy interests. Leveling wise, we both have one level 50 job (WHM and DRG) with an item level over 100. The rest of our jobs are between 15-30, and she has all crafting and gathering jobs at 50.
We have our own personal FC and a nice big house, but we're the only active members and generally only use it to chat with one another.
Thanks for looking. Hope to hear from someone soon. =)