Well, it's not so much as the que, that doesn't bother me like players dropping out because they don't want to do certain dungeons. It's when others throw tantrums and/or start getting abusive. That is counter productive and wastes everyone's time. I just have a low tolerance in this FF for that. I generally don't chat much while doing a duty as I am trying to pay attention to anything productive that is said. That's why I am having to play catch up, well besides being one of those casuals lol. If a duty fails I don't even throw a fit myself. Chalk it up to learning I suppose.

When I got to Titan HM one piece of advice I could have used was stop after you move out of AoE so server could update my position. Instead all I ever saw or got was abusive tantrums. Nobody ever said anything about server needing to update position. If that is true of course.

Again thanks for the responses