What I see from the OP, correct if I'm wrong. But I see OP stating that DPS are not meeting the DPS checks due to deaths. WHM has more cure potency that CNJ cure. And then after several wipes, alliance abandons duty. So overall a bad run. Not a good one at all. So of course you're gonna get blamed. Not because of your lack of skill. But the fact that you are in there without a job stone. Scapegoat anyone? Granted you're not the only healer in there. But if you don't want to be blamed for wipes/not being able to complete the duty. Then come in prepared. That includes gear/cross class skills/job stone equiped.