Quote Originally Posted by Kyonika View Post
"that moment when..." you realize you are playing on an English-speaking NA server.

Like the poster above, I too play on a JP server and never experience this level of trolling, rudeness or otherwise 指示厨 (shi-ji-chu) behaviour.
I've ran with plenty of Japanese players in FFXI and I can tell you the difference:

When they hit join queue button or otherwise commit to something, they take that commitment seriously.

They tend to not inflict themselves on the rest of the group (like some NA people think they can get away with).

There are exceptions, but the concept of face (how they appear to their peers) means more to them.