Yeah the people this game attracts is gross, which is a shame cuz its a good game. But people have no tolerance for new players. They try to speed run everything and if you aren't i100+ they hate you, are mean to you, then kick you. Which I haaatteee. How will the game keep new players when they are treated like this? We were all new at one time and had crappy gear... I found most of the time the douches tend to be tanks. Like how tanks rage quit dungeons when they don't get their way because their queue took 5 seconds. Then the healer is usually stupid and thinks that means they leave too (it has happened sooooo much). Then the DPs who probably waited 20+ minutes just had that time wasted.

Find a good FC to do things with because the community in this game will kill you. Note there are plenty of great players obviously. It's just the D-bags are too common.