Failure comes along with success. What would folks do if FFXIV was like the old Everquest and old school MMO's where you literally had to prep for 30 minutes before you even stepped out of the town.
Too much emphasis on relying on video walkthroughs. If you watch them that's cool for you; if you don't even cooler.
And how is being a video watcher being an elite I'd think that would fit more with players who have tried and failed who have tasted both sides of success and failure and eventually succeeded on their own terms. (Withstanding a complete carry of course)
So if you watch a video before attempting something you should complete it first shot every time and be able to carry all the lackluster non-video watchers