Well i played recently pso 2 so i can say the grind is way heavier than here and the rng is god aweful but i see less people complaining about it and just grinding all day. I played as a mage and i had to have a good reaction to evade everything because pretty much every attack could one shot me.
Character dressing and makeup combinations are almost limitless Many crossovers.

Also breast phisics! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t9nwPK1nyI0 (this was a glitch in the beginning still cracks me up)