I don't understand the mindset of being held hostage. No one is holding you hostage. You are free to leave at any time. Your issue is that you don't want to face the consequence of your actions. Be an adult. And don't expect others to help you work around a system that is in place for a reason.

Funny thing is, I've been through tons of terrible parties/raids. And usually things smooth out after the first couple of rage quitters leave. Interesting that.