is this a common occurrence?

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I haven't read all 3 pages of this but just wanted to say don't take it too personally, people are weird like that. A couple nights ago I played with my friend, we put 2 PS4s in the living room and 2 TVs lol. I did WHM on I forget what I think Halatali or something low and he did his tank which he never plays. He was pretty bad at it taking damage non stop, and wiped a couple times. The other members were an archer/bard and maybe ninja or something melee. I was holding back on curing since it would pull aggro but had to hit it hard at some times to keep him from dying. Anyway EVERY time he would die or whatever he'd practically throw the controller freaking out about how bad the DPS are that they aren't doing their job properly and are making it super hard for him. They seemed to be fine to me, just attacking whatever targets he was. Wasn't going to get into an argument over it though so just agreed, but yeah point is a lot of people never want to accept the blame when it's their fault. I think unless the DPS is pulling or attacking a different target (he didn't have them marked) then it's kind of hard for DPS to be killing the tank.

I used to totally take it personally when the tank would die but most times I find it's due to something else. As sometimes I'll be hitting swiftcast and cure as fast as I can and it just cannot physically keep up, to the point that (when my friend died and blamed me), I knew it wasn't my fault since if he is taking damage faster than I can heal, there's no way I can really do anything differently.