Quote Originally Posted by Pells View Post
How exactly is this the healer's fault?
Just how the blame get's shifted. Healer dies, Tank's fault. Tank dies, Healer's fault. Ergo you're going to get blamed regardless, so just bite your tongue, otherwise you'll spend the next 30 minutes with "FINE I AFK, KICK ME, GOOD LUCK GETTING SOMEONE ELSE."

From experience, people don't really get into an argument over blame unless the player is toxic, basically they are playing bad on purpose. I've seen Tanks and DPS leave after wiping once. I've also seen DPS leave after getting whatever they were farming the dungeon for.