is this a common occurrence?

[skillmatic320]

With more experience you learn when you are wrong and when somebody is just blaming you when they are wrong. You will learn a good Tank from a bad one. A good Tank knows the boss mechanics and knows where you are,where the DPS are and how to position and use their CD's. A bad one feels like he's made of paper,spins the boss around all over and makes life impossible for the Healer.

In the end people get angry, you will get angry and that's when the game beats you. If you lost your temper it sucks because you never play as well like that since you can't focus.

I tried not to get angry. I simply asked what his reasons were and he tried blaming it on my gear. Rings and necklace at that, not even my actual armor or weapon. It seemed so ridiculous to me. Last night i bought all the affordable level 35 accessories i could just to avoid being blamed over it in the future.