What did I do wrong?

[JimboTCB]

I find it hard to imagine there's anything at level 23 which could cause such a tantrum in terms of failing on mechanics and stuff... Sometimes tanks and healers just like to think they're better than everyone else, and if they'd not given any comment on your performance prior to that (even if it was just "stop standing in AOEs ffs") it's weird to suddenly throw a hissy fit at the end of a dungeon like that.

Maybe he didn't think you were pulling your weight against other synced-down players, maybe he'd been quietly raging for the entire dungeon over something you were doing wrong because you didn't know better, maybe he was just a dick. You meet all sorts in dungeon finder, for better or worse.

[Risvertasashi]

Hmm. Others have pretty much said it. Probably not avoiding AoEs or standing in front of mobs, possibly your damage was low. But no matter what it was, it's ridiculous for them to rage when you're only level 23 or thereabouts.

The dungeons at that level are really easy to heal even with a lot of mistakes (they're meant to give a lot of leeway for people to learn). There's not really anything in them that's a serious threat... so yeah, that healer was a jerk.

If you want to go the extra mile for improvement... have a friend come with you and see if they notice anything.

[StouterTaru]

I saw this with an archer that wanted to pull everything in a low level dungeon. We kept telling him to stop, but he didn't. SCH threatened to stop healing him several times.

[MirielleLavandre]

Seems to me that healer was just being a jerk and mean -- there is absolutely no excuse to do the whole "I'm not healing _____" thing when playing with a newer player. If this is your first job and level 23 is your highest, the healer should know it and make sure to help guide you if she sees you doing something wrong, or at least give tips. Every time I do a lower level dungeon to help out FC mates, if we get other newer players I make sure to keep them topped off, especially if they are not synched down.

In the end, just a plainly bad healer with a bad attitude -- that healer doesn't represent what most of us are like ^_^v

[Niwashi]

I know of healers who will occasionally refuse to keep healing someone if they repeatedly refuse to respond to basic advice (like "don't pull before the tank" to DPS, or the like). But a healer who just suddenly announces they won't heal someone without having already specified what their issue is, that healer isn't helping anyone and is just being a jerk.

[JaderauntOnJenova]

Hi all! So long story short... I was in a party and we were in a boss battle.
The healer announced that" I am not going to heal our lancer."(me)
What did i do wrong? I am fairly new at this and i don't want to be a jerk or cause problems.
But what did i do to upset this person? Let me have it! How can I be a help and not anger my party members? Thanks!!

If they don't tell you when you ask just feel free to hang back and let them carry you through the event when you take damage that is significant ....

I'd guess maybe you pulled a few times instead of letting the tank? Or grabbed agro from tank and didn't turn down your attacks until the tank got it back...

[Sagittarian]

The only thing that jumps out at me at that level is if you were running into the electrified water at the second boss in Halitali.