Complimenting someone is not flirting!

[Eye_Gore]

So much drama ended up happening irl because of stupid issues like this >_> lost someone extremely important to me that I dated for years.

I hate to say it, and I'll apologize upfront if you take this the wrong way. If someone got all up in arms over a video game chat and left you because of that, that person has some severe insecurities and you're better off.

[Altijacek]

I hate to say it, and I'll apologize upfront if you take this the wrong way. If someone got all up in arms over a video game chat and left you because of that, that person has some severe insecurities and you're better off.

I'm just going to say, that's not exactly what happened. It was extremely complicated, lol. Just slightly related to this. I guess the lesson I'm trying to say is please don't mistake somebody being nice for somebody flirting with you.

[Virevolte]

Hee hee...

The subtitles of what that guy said is probably: "My wife is just here beside me, please, don't get me in troubles...!"

[CYoung187]

Hee hee...

The subtitles of what that guy said is probably: "My wife is just here beside me, please, don't get me in troubles...!"

Most likely the case.

People are very easily offended and tend to over-react to everything these days. It's no wonder people want to be anti-social.

[Cyrus-Wallace]

I flirt with all my friends! lo/ However, I'm afraid of complimenting others on DF, even though sometimes I do it, since I get genuinely impressed with either other's look or skill... dun care if it's a girl or a boy. The often think I'm hitting on them. No, just no. No. Why would I do that? Why are people assuming that in a first place?!

Hee hee...
The subtitles of what that guy said is probably: "My wife is just here beside me, please, don't get me in troubles...!"

It's so sad that even married people have to act this way. I mean, you are living with that person, you're loving that person... why would you even get mad about it? If there's a real trust issue, they should talk about it and work it out together... sorry, I'm not used to (and I can't stand) the "OMG, you are TALKING!!! to another guy/girl, you are obviously going to cheat on me!!!" bs. Assuming that this was the case.

[Skivvy]

I'm just going to say, that's not exactly what happened. It was extremely complicated, lol. Just slightly related to this. I guess the lesson I'm trying to say is please don't mistake somebody being nice for somebody flirting with you.

Ahhhhh, that reminds me of my teen years. Can't tell you how many guys thought I liked them simply because I was nice :P

[Elusana_Celah]

So much drama ended up happening irl because of stupid issues like this >_> lost someone extremely important to me that I dated for years. That said, I flirt with dudes in my FC all the time for fun lol :P P.S. I'm a straight dude lol, it's just funny to play around with FC mates, like saying "hey stud," or whatever lol.

Ugh... people should really calm down and stop taking everything so seriously. What a way to live life constantly being upset over little insignificant things. When you're old and on your death bed you look back and realize that all you did in life was be upset over things and never managed to influence any change but did succeed in pushing away people who cared a lot about you.

Depressing rant I know but I just hate to see things like that happen.

[MilesSaintboroguh]

Maybe no one else was nice to them?

[Stormfur]

I'm a girl who plays a male character. I'm married in real life, and in game. My real-life husband doesn't play. My in-game husband threatens to carve up anyone who so much as casts a sideways glance at me. RL Husband finds this hilarious.

[raela]

I do admt I get sorta suspicious when someone gives a compliment. D: I totally would worry about flirting, or in the case of performance, sarcasm. Was in a trial last night and the other healer told me I was doing a good job.. Made me immediately wonder what I screwed up. Not used to people specifically singling someone out in a nice way, I guess.