Sort of a newbie.. Starting over but looking for FC and possible friends to help me

[DSaint]

Hello and welcome, my friend!

First, one tip: You dont need to *start over* to try another class/job. You can be every class/job in a single character.

Since you was into brayflox I will assume you hit 34 with your other char. You did job storyline quest to change your "healer class" to "healer job"? It is a MUST. Jobs are advanced forms of classes. Jobs have access to better status and some exclusive skills.

34 is a fresh level, a newbie level, lets say. You don't need to be a PRO in LV 34. If you are trying to get better, it's a good thing already.

Like every place in life, there is always rude people and it is no different in a mmo. Luckily, I can assure you, there is just a very few players like that in FF14. Most player base is kind and mature. So, don't let some rude players turn you down. Take your time and learn your job. Read some guides, go for healer or dps job section here in the NA forum (useful tips there, you just need to look). And don't be terrified. Be strong, read guides (google it too) and keep trying!

Roles section there: http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/f...6-Classes-Jobs

Phoenix server section. You can look for a friendly FC there. Lot of threads advertising FCs: http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/f...hoenix%28EU%29