When i was 13+year old and playing FFXI i did quit for the amount of time i was with the girl. I still was paying for the game so i only log in to talk to friend or just now and then do a party if she hang up and she was doing something. but now with my 3relationship i don't have to worry about that. She was playing wow when we start going out she even made the linkshell i was building break due to her using my only pc to play wow. She like every other wow play thought ffxi look dumb but she saw me playing and she want to test it out.

She learn pretty quick before i even got her the game i went to take a bath and came back. She had build me a merit party with the right type of members o.o and got me to the area in whitegate o.o. So i got her the game she quit wow and in about 1year she had over 5+ 75 which where. RDM,WHM,BLM,SCH,THF, and she got BRD DRG and SMN 65. She even help me get my COP done. She got in a HNM linkshell i did not have a mage job but they let me in due to her so i even got a black belt thanks to her.

I was playing for years and i was not even 75 yet but i took my time and help other. But when she start playing it's when i got really into the game and start getting stuff like kirin body and black belt and everything else for my sam and monk. Now we are playing FFXIV and we still enjoy playing Game together and go out and hang out.

so i have no issue right now it hard when the girl does not like playing video games and tell you to get off. But you had to make them understand that this is your thing. At least you not going out to the bar and getting drug or doing other stuff. you just at home playing a MMO and she know where you are lol.