Some Newb Questions

[Nerael]

1- Can i reallocate my skill points? Or should i follow a guide to see where i put them (lancer class).

You can Re-allocate stat points for 250 Grand Company Seals. You join a Grand company around main story level 20 (that's not character level just to be clear). Mostly that's around level 25 if you just focus on one class. Grand Company seals are very easy to get later in the game, so you can easily play around with the stats a bit.

2- Should i worry with gathering and crafting at this moment? At least i think i should do gathering but i have no idea how to proceed,

At around Main quest level 15 you can switch classes. You switch classes by simply equipping a different main hand weapon. Some people like crafting, some like gathering. There isn't really a good or bad time to start. Having crafting classes early though means you can make your own equipment which can help quite a bit.

3- Since i am going for a dragoon, how can i lever the other class to level 15 (can´t remember the name)? And when should i level it? I was thinking maybe after hitting level 30.

See Answer 2. Simply equip a weapon from a different class. You must have gone to the appropriate guild first though to unlock it. Unlocking it takes 30 seconds though

4- When and where should i upgrade my equipement? I got mine until now from quests but i think that won´t last long.

Quests, Crafting, Dungeons. Dungeons and HQ crafting usually gives the best equipment for your level.

5- Is there any guild/free company that accepts new players and lends them a hand?

My FC is one of them. Feel free to look me up ingame and we'll get you sorted out. (My information is next to my Portrait on the left)
We have veterans, new players and everything in between.

but i can´t seem to figure how to add you guys

Press the Letter O on keyboard (Don't know the exact menu name, sorry). There you will have Groups/Blacklist/Friendlist Etc.