Kinda late to the party on this, but I know what you mean on the community part. I remember back on XI when you would just stand around just talking with people in an area, but that being said you were generally waiting for a party to be formed so you could actually do something when that was going on. Those conversations though didn't end with the general chat though and usually continued into the party while you were fighting or delving into a dungeon. I myself am socially awkward, and I kinda miss being forced in a way into socializing. I feel your pain though, because I often find myself and my other few friends that are on just wandering around until we can build up enough courage to attempt to grab a random player for a dungeon run. I've met some pretty awesome players both game and conversation wise that way, but it never seems to last beyond the dungeon exit. I'm always looking for a good group of people that like to socialize as much as they like to dive into dungeons.