Quote Originally Posted by Garlyle View Post
You don't need to be attempting to steal aggro off of the main tank in order to ensure you're second on the list for Angra Mainyu. All you really need to ensure is that you build up well enough that you're reasonably above your allies and you'll be reasonably above all other healers/DPS as well. Beyond that though, staying stacked in place with the MT is foolish - you're eating a lot of extra damage that doesn't need to be eaten, and your healers will enjoy the opportunity to just Cleric Stance the fight more because this is one of those fights where other than super sparse adds and the MT it's entirely possible nobody takes damage.
For a tank, Stare really doesn't do much damage, especially if you pop CDs occasionally even as OT. That's his only cleave. It doesn't add that much pressure to the healers. If you're standing on the boss's flank and the MT dies from an unhandled Doom, the boss will turn to face you before you can get in front. That's enough to cause some serious trouble for the healers if he Stares, hitting the DPS on the flank, or worse, immediately casts Double Vision after turning before turning back.

But, that's just my personal opinion. The important part is, as you said, staying second on the aggro chart.