How would identify a female player guy/girl?

[Kosmos992k]

also stop assuming that everyone must always have a raging boner for their character

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This. OMFG This *so* much.

I really like the way my character looks, I have spend hours deciding on her appearance and voice. But good grief, she's just a game character, very pretty and yes, she's pleasing to the eye. In the same way that anything pretty is pleasing to the eye. Personally, I'm proud of her and continue to spend a decent amount of time adjusting her appearance and wardrobe as the mood takes me.

Why is it that people always assume the most ridiculous motives for such things?

In my experience, those accusing others of such things are the ones with the issue.

and to conserve replies...I'll add this here.

Hey Neighbour!

You live next door to DW'sR on the Mist seafront right?

Hmm....well, I'm on Behemoth, and our FC house is in the mist, its the Medium as far south east (I think) as you can go, it overlooks the beach atop a cliff all of it's own... But "Hey!" in any case, perhaps one day the servers will be upgraded enough to bring everyone together...

Male Player's character:

Make that outfit and hair pink and you come close to my wife's avatar, so, yeah, your theory doesn't work so well...