Its not even that its the healers are letting me die with the comment lazy tanking. Now I pulled aggro like I said I pull it and keep it under control. Its rare that minions leave my attention. Yes it cost more TP when Bards and black mages are around but none the less i care about my team sooo i spend the needed TP to keep aggro. What got me is lately a lot of healers rather do other things instead of heal me and when I die the comment "if you keep being a lazy tank your healers will let you die"..........Hmmm sooo pulling aggro wasnt enough? Keeping crowd control wasnt enough? If i could record my play you would see well he pulling and keeping aggro why is healer doing other things then healing him. Now the comeback response is why what i just typed.