So, I recently had a rather stressful DR EX. Bard and a Black Mage, Bard running Foe's and the Black Mage well-geared. No matter how hard I pushed, they were riding my ass for hate the entire time (and it didn't help that I'd lose hate if I even DARED to apply Maim). So, this meant overpower spam, Infuriate+Steel Cyclone, and flash, and finishing every pull with something to the tune of 50 MP and 100 TP. Since I literally needed ALL my resources each fight, this meant waiting for them to recover each time before proceeding.
So, I know the DPS were probably getting antsy as hell waiting on my sorry ass, but what the heck should I have done? It's crap like this that makes me think there needs to be TP recovery pots (and potions need a very short recast timer), or tank gear needs to natively be much stronger than DPS gear. Unless I outgear them to the point where I can relax towards the end of the pull or use single-target, I just wind up wasting time anyway.