I am a returning player and i am trying to progress through whatever i can in the endgame before the expac,and despite having now experience in all of t9's phases i am hitting a roadblock.Party finder groups are either composed of people who cannot even get past phase 2 and wipe on it for days,or people that ragequit at the slightest mistake in phase 4.There arent any statics that actually progress through t9 to join-posts in both the official forums,reddit's recruitment forum and using the ingame chat yielded nothing.The FC i am in which has a t10+ static tried to help me,but most refused to focus,overaggroing/fusing golems although they have all killed the encounter and eventually dropped a "we'll do this another time k?"which never came.

So how does one progress through t9 which is obsolete enough to get people to do it(except FARM RUN LINK 10X ACHI OR GTFO) but hard enough so that unorganized groups will just get splattered short of shelling 3m gil to the run sellers?