I rarely encounter new players who ask for help. A lot of new players that I encounter either ignore help and advice, or actively reject it. I still get the occasional lv 36 gladiator who hasn't unlocked paladin, tanking brayflox with a thaumaturge shield, hooded cotton chest piece, and intelligence jewelry. Or how about the thaumaturge who repeatedly casts thunder on the same target? On one hand, I GET that some people want to play a "final fantasy" game their own way, without interacting with others. That STILL is how I play Diablo or Dark Souls or Assassin's Creed. But when the guy who doesn't want advice is "tanking" stone vigil for a story quest, its to the detriment of three other people.

So, when I DO encounter a new player that wants help and is receptive to suggestions, I am more than happy to set that person on the best path possible. Helping those who want help is helping everyone. We all will eventually run dungeons with newish people, while leveling alts or farming relic quest phases. When people know what to wear, how to move, and what attacks to use, it makes a better game for everyone.