Fresh 50, quick dumb question

[Aeolus2]

So I just hit 50 and read up on all advice on what to do when.... stuck on a dumb question. I'm starting my Relic Quest. I need the Bow with 2 Materia attached (Purchased all 3). I do not have a toon with the skills to attach it. Is it like other games where I just advertise in chat then trust a random stranger with my bow and two materia, then pay em when he attaches it? Or is there an easier way where I don't have to physically give the items to another person. I have done 0 trades and I have trust issues -_-

[Nicobo]

There is a "request meld" command for doing this saftely,
please note that you also need to provide the "catalysts" for EACH melding, "tips" is optional. ^^;

[Highwilds]

The "Request Meld" only allows the person to meld your materia into your gear that you keep to yourself the whole time. So there's no need to trade any of the items to anyone.

[Jamyl_Sarum]

you should just buy the bow with the 2 materia already melded