All relics Zeta before expansion. Wait, that won't be possible with my time, but...

Currently I have 3 nexus and one novus very close to it, I'd conform with making those throug Zeta, and make SCH's nexus before expansion.

As you say, t13 stuff is just about finding the correct people for it... I didn't even bother to raid during almost a year, luckily at start of this year I found a nice groupie and we are now facing evil bahamuth and the ahr mon or whatever!... But, still, It is not my goal because I don't like that much content where I need to have elite group that I may, may not, find.

Also, have all crafter and gatherers supra before expansion wouldn't be bad, but almost done with it, so perhaps go lucis.