this thread is simply turning into, it's "all about me, me, me!" whining and not about finding a solution.
That's because it never was about finding a solution in the first place. It's turning into whatever you perceive it turning into. People can whine if they want, whining is not always a bad thing per say. Your solution is just the opposite of "if you want to speed run just find a pre-made group" which I agree but both sides of the coin don't always want to go through the trouble of making a pre-made group, we don't always have friends at disposition either. The point of the thread is more about making a conscious choice between going along with whatever you are asked or told to do or leaving them be by quitting and accepting the consequences. People are giving their opinions from their side of the coins, and it is their right, just as much as it is our right to not always agree with their opinion, even if completely selfish and unconsidering.