And to be perfectly frank, if you're going to pull the "its my money I play how i want!" you're every bit as selfish and detrimental to this game as the people complaining to speed run when its clear others do not want too.
Nope, I do not do that. I just leave the group when I don't want to deal with it. They can find another tank, that's not a toxic behavior. What would be a toxic behavior is forcing your habits on others. I don't force my habits on others. I always think of the team before me, however, when the team does not care about what I think or want to do, why should I comply to such selfishness?