Quote Originally Posted by Noni View Post
Calling a healer bad because they choose not to deal damage is wrong in my opinion.
I called them rude in this thread. I have never called a healer bad in party for not using holy. Actually, at the start of dungeons I usually ask if they want foe or not, when DPS does not include smn/blm. If they don't answer or say no then I drop it, that is the full extent of my party interaction on the matter.

I agree with what you're saying about damned if they do and damned if they don't. There's a definite expectation there now, /especially/ from the tanks. Its compounded by the fact you'll see tanks that don't pop any defensive cooldowns when they super pull, expecting the clutch holy as they finish their run. Benediction does not have such a timer, but without playing white mage- they would never know. So instead they just get ticked!