@Fyce
It is possible I am mixing the two. Everyone has their own opinions so miscommunications happen.
But the harassment happens whether someone can or cannot do it. And I believe I said earlier in another post that majority rules and there they is always PF and other ways. I mean I don't care much to holy on Healer or DPS, compared to SCH where I do it because it presents a fun challenge to me. But I still do half the time or if asked nicely or if I feel confident i can keep the tank alive. And I have yet to see out of 1000+ dungeons ( i got that 1000 dungeon/trial achievement a while ago so I feel like I spent too much time playing xD) people acting the way people in the forums say. I have yet to see even one person make a big deal over playing differently. And like I said, Majority rules. So if the majority feels like someone won't listen then yes, it's okay. I'm not against opposing playstyles, only when they're forced on someone or when the person is harassed over it :/
So I'm trying to support people having a bad day cuz of mean players.


@Daranion
Ah, no, people seem to keep missing the harassment point x.x
Variety is the spice of life, how boring would it be if we were all the same?
But people calling people fails just for being different is wrong...
And I'm sorry for the late reply I'm trying to keep up with this. I like reading peoples opinions but there's so many posts to try and read and reply to when people ask me something