Ughh this again ...

Its a game, play to have fun but try not to let your "fun" impede other people's "fun".

Nobody should force others to play the way they want, but remember when you are stubbornly refusing to do things in a group that they want, you are forcing them to play your way and end up doing the very thing that you don't want others to do to you.

Basically everyone just needs to let go of some of the selfishness and ego that we are all guilty of and learn to adjust to the people we are interacting with for everyone's benefit. Work with people, not against them. These are the basics of social interaction, ingame and in real life.