When I was new to the game, it would warn people that someone was new. I would say "first time here". I ran into to great people and awful people. Some people would be incredibly generous, with their time and patience. To all those people who are patient and generous, and even if you were not kind to me, but that is who you are and how you behave to all you encounter. I SEE YOU, I FEEL YOU. THANK YOU for being you from the bottom of my heart.

The other people who ignored me, ran off and pulled as many mobs as possible and were cruel when we wiped. I am not mad at you, I feel sorry for you. I am more geared and experienced now, I play a WHM and my wife BRD. We join, you run off without asking, we do incredible speed runs, I Holy the crap out of giant groups and my wife sings and AOEs with me. You thank us for our runs. I could have gotten to this point faster and much more happily if you had just taken some of your time and shown a small amount courtesy.