You are not a fail.

[PArcher]

And, while there are some people that are overly pushy f8r speed runs...there are just as many being the same for slow runs.

If there are 3 wanting a speed run, and you're geared for it, well, majority rules. Same the other way; if three want it slower, that's what happens.

However, if you just refuse to dps when there's only light healing going on, or just single target when aoe is easy to do, or try to extend a fight for no reason...you're either really lazy or just bad (or a troll). Neither reflect well on you