Last time someone did this to me when I tanked... after they pulled twice before me, I stood there and wait for them to die........ I already am still learning to keep aggro, if now you just go and attack before i can throw my shield to try and get aggro, you know what? I won't try to get it back y.y/

when I dd, i always try to get the mob that tank is hitting, am not always successful IF there are no numbers, if there are numbers, I follow it.

Anyway this is the reason I prefer tanking with my fc, so premade party but sometimes happens that I do tank with randoms; now that i'm more comfortable doing it.