When the tank marks things please fight in order of the numbers, when I tanked I would mark things, and one or both DPS's fought something else, and in a attempt to pull it/them off the DPS one of the others would go after the healer, so I stopped pulling hate off the DPS, it's not the tanks or healers job to teach DPS how to count, if you don't want to follow numbers, don't use DF make a party/use PF, have any other tanks had this problem? if so what did you do about it?

as for me and my Wife we gave up on pulling it off DPS's that wont follow the number order, like the day before yesterday in amdapore keep hard we had a BLM and BRD that ran ahead and when the BLM died he said "GJ" my Wife was a PLD I was WHM, I told her "It's his fault he died, I wasn't going to heal him for running ahead" she felt bad that he died, so tanks out there what do you do?