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    there's a lot of sensitive people in this game

    got kicked out of a lost city duty run for simply saying "holy?" to a healer. tank pulled everything before the steps, i popped mantra then played foe's but they stood there even when nobody needed healing. didn't say anything, figured maybe they weren't comfortable with using holy or cleric stance with a group of enemies at 50-75%. they got lower though, nobody needed any healing and still nothing so i wrote "holy?" and that was it. nothing more and nothing less. tank and healer were in an fc together and booted me because "they didn't like my attitude" lol. not the first time something like this has happened either to me or to randoms and friends. this really needs to stop. it's the internet, if you're going to be that sensitive here you might as well stay in a bubble because somebody that actually wants to be mean will make it their job to annoy you or hurt your feelings which you make very easy.
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    Yup, I bump into a Miqo'te and she softly meows.

    But in all seriousness. I get sick and tired of being called a squishy Tank because I don't have shield oath! My gear is top quality HQ made by the great sierra.
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    that last part made me giggle 'cause i have a neighbor named sierra. thought you were on gilgamesh for a second there
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    if the healer didn't want to dps then that's final. it's the players call not yours.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Musashidon View Post
    if the healer didn't want to dps then that's final. it's the players call not yours.
    didn't push it on them. saying "holy?" once isn't pushing anything on anybody. all they had to do was say no, not comfortable or any other way of no. instead i got nothing and a kick. there's no defensive for them

    if a healer isn't going to use cleric stance i'd like them to tell me so i'm not wasting my time with foe's
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    Quote Originally Posted by lxChrisxl View Post
    it's the internet, if you're going to be that sensitive here you might as well stay in a bubble because somebody that actually wants to be mean will make it their job to annoy you or hurt your feelings which you make very easy.
    Because the onus is on the sensitive person to change their ways and not the jerks. Got it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheCurls View Post
    Because the onus is on the sensitive person to change their ways and not the jerks. Got it.
    why not both and be more realistic? :b

    just saying, everybody knows those kinds are out there and they're not going to change so why get overly emotional about every little thing? just makes their job easier and your life harder.
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    It shouldn't be expected for a healer to dps. If they are comfortable and have the skill to they will dps without you ever having to ask.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ThinkPInk View Post
    It shouldn't be expected for a healer to dps. If they are comfortable and have the skill to they will dps without you ever having to ask.
    i have literally been told the opposite from most healers i've met and played with. even the healer that replaced them when i joined in progress said they weren't doing their full duties as a healer.

    either way healer dps or no kicking somebody for saying "holy?" once it's stupid and if you believe otherwise i hope i never get a run with you
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    Stihl Lodeing
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    I'm surprised by the responses you've gotten Chris.

    You didn't give the me impression you pushed anything on anyone.

    What you said about the internet and sensitivity is true.

    You did not deserve to be kicked.

    A healer that just stands there a heals with 75%-100% mana doing nothing else is a horrible healer.

    With that said, not really sure what you're trying to accomplish here. Yes there very sensitive people in Eorzea. I blame the Lalas....bunch of trouble makers they are!
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