Might wanna give Atomos a check if Tonberry doesn't work out.

http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/t...-Atomos-Server

I've visited there just for fun and the group is very friendly and helpful; I actually find myself playing there more often than on my main recently. Granted its no 'fully english server' but the FC is pretty lively at all times and even in close relations with a couple other FCs it seems.