I struggle with my ADHD as well as taking care of myself so that I don't feel like a zombie on a daily basis. Because of this, it can be really hard for me to feel motivated to do much of anything, and it's because of this that I missed out on so much stuff this game has had to offer in the past. I regret it so much... (I hope they bring back the Lightning and Shantoto events at least).
Like today I spent a very large majority of my time watching Youtube and it's now 11PM... which is depressing. I feel like I completely wasted away my day. Though it's my fault for staying up so late last night and eating mostly sugar for breakfast; that's probably why I don't feel very motivated to do much of anything lol. :P
I just came back to the game and while I'm much better about it than I used to be, (glamour and fantasia potions help keep me from making new characters at least lol) I've learned that the best way for me to feel excited about logging in and leveling my PLD is to watch end game goodies. You know, like big raid bosses and such. I've yet to do any end game raiding, despite being one of the masses who pre-orderd the game and waited for hours just to login on a daily basis. I want to raid so badly! Even if I have to mainly rely on DF and PUGs due to my inconsistent night shifts at work.
I also really want to do end game crafting (if only low lvl crafting wasn't such a bore), be rich, and one day own a home (among other things)... But raiding videos are more exciting and raiding is mainly why I play MMOs anyway.
Anyone have any videos to share that make them feel pumped to play? >:3
Edit: Oh and it's not that I don't enjoy leveling up my character. When I'm not groggy or my ADHD is really bad, I have a blast leveling her up and finally doing harder dungeons. I also spent a lot of time on her new glamour (which hasn't updated yet it seems since I've made her a lala again). It's just when I feel kinda crappy it's hard for me to feel motivated and even turn my game on. It's the same for many other things in my life that would be easy or ritualistic for most other people.
Sorry for the essay by the way. xD