PLD is boring and all the same. MT? Halone! OT? Halone! DPS? Halone!

Doesn't matter if you are the tank there just for DPS, or if you are DPS there just for DPS. Regardless, if you are not the MT, you need to keep track of your own enmity and hold back when it looks like you are close to taking it.

Otherwise, STR gear set, Sword Oath, and start whacking away.

As far as WAR vs. PLD DPS, don't always assume the WAR puts out more DPS. Who has a full set of STR accessories, who has the better weapon, etc.?