I recently transferred off the server due to lack of groups for Final Coil. Yes, there's a lot of friendly people on Lamia and yes, lots of social gatherings happen as well but for those that want to progress, it's extremely hit-or-miss. There's just not enough skilled players go to around and more often than not schedules often are a problem. Right now it's extremely late to try and bother with trying to raid on Lamia unless you're already part of something or have a group set up consisting of raider alts. Just cut your losses and pack up, you will be missed but at least you won't be bored anymore.